From whirlwind romances to decades-long partnerships, the LGBTQ+ community in Hollywood is filled with stories of love, resilience, and change. In this updated list, we look at 10 notable figures, diving deeper into their relationships and where they stand today.
1. Greg Berlanti & Robbie Rogers – Still Going Strong
Greg Berlanti, the mastermind behind TV hits like Arrow, The Flash, and You, first met Robbie Rogers — a former LA Galaxy soccer player and one of the first openly gay athletes in American soccer — in 2013. After a few years of dating, the couple got engaged in 2016 and married in 2017. They’ve since welcomed two children via surrogacy and often share glimpses of family life on Instagram. Berlanti calls Robbie his “anchor in the chaos of Hollywood,” while Rogers says Berlanti is “the calm to his storm.”
2. Lily Tomlin & Jane Wagner – Decades of Love
One of Hollywood’s most enduring love stories began in 1971, when actress-comedian Lily Tomlin met writer Jane Wagner. Their creative and romantic partnership flourished, with Wagner writing much of Tomlin’s iconic material. After more than 40 years together, they officially tied the knot in 2013. The pair have been outspoken advocates for LGBTQ+ rights, often joking that their “secret” to longevity is “staying out of each other’s hair… except when writing together.”
3. Elton John & David Furnish – Together Since the ’90s
Music legend Elton John and Canadian filmmaker David Furnish began dating in 1993, long before same-sex marriage was legal in the UK. They entered into a civil partnership in 2005 and converted it into marriage in 2014. Together, they have two sons, Zachary and Elijah, and run the Elton John AIDS Foundation. The couple is frequently seen at charity galas, proving that love and activism can go hand in hand.
4. Jonathan Bennett & Jaymes Vaughan – Married & Happy
Mean Girls star Jonathan Bennett fell for television host Jaymes Vaughan in 2016 after Vaughan interviewed him for Celebrity Page. Their chemistry was instant. In 2020, Vaughan proposed with a custom-written song instead of a ring, making headlines for its heartfelt originality. They married in March 2022 in Mexico, surrounded by family, friends, and fellow LGBTQ+ celebrities. Their wedding photos went viral, celebrated for breaking traditions and focusing on joy and inclusivity.
5. Beanie Feldstein & Bonnie-Chance Roberts – Wed and Celebrating
Actress Beanie Feldstein, known for Booksmart and Funny Girl, met producer Bonnie-Chance Roberts on the set of the 2019 film How to Build a Girl. Their connection quickly deepened, and the couple tied the knot in May 2023 in a whimsical, pastel-themed outdoor wedding. Guests described the day as “pure magic.” Beanie has said she always dreamed of marrying her “best friend,” and Bonnie-Chance calls Beanie her “safe place.”
6. Chrishell Stause & G Flip – Married, Plans for Family
Reality TV star Chrishell Stause from Selling Sunset and Australian musician G Flip met in 2021 while filming a music video. Their chemistry was so strong that Chrishell went public with the relationship on the Selling Sunset reunion special in 2022. They married quietly in May 2023 in Las Vegas, surprising fans with the news on Instagram. Recently, the couple hinted at wanting to start a family, with G Flip saying, “We can’t wait to be parents — it’s just a matter of time.”
7. Raven-Symoné & Miranda Maday – Married Since 2020
Disney Channel alum Raven-Symoné shocked fans in June 2020 when she announced her marriage to Miranda Maday via Instagram. The couple had a small, intimate backyard wedding. Since then, they’ve shared fun snippets of married life, from cooking challenges to travel adventures. Raven says Miranda has helped her live more authentically, while Miranda praises Raven’s humor and resilience.
8. Bethany C. Meyers & Nico Tortorella – Polyamorous & Committed
Actor Nico Tortorella (Younger) and entrepreneur Bethany C. Meyers met over a decade ago and built a relationship rooted in deep friendship before romance. They married in 2018 in a gender-fluid ceremony where both wore matching white jumpsuits. The couple is openly polyamorous and transparent about their relationship style, often discussing it on social media and in interviews. In 2023, they welcomed their first child, and in 2024, their second.
9. Gigi Gorgeous & Nats Getty – Recently Divorced
YouTube star and transgender activist Gigi Gorgeous met model and heiress Nats Getty in 2016. Their romance was high-profile, with glamorous vacations and joint fashion ventures. They married in 2019 in a lavish ceremony in California. However, by mid-2025, rumors of trouble began circulating, and in July 2025, Getty filed for divorce. Gigi has since said she’s focusing on “self-love and rebuilding.”
10. Sandi Toksvig & Debbie Toksvig – Still Married
British-Danish comedian, writer, and broadcaster Sandi Toksvig has been with Debbie since 2006, entering a civil partnership in 2007 and converting it into marriage in 2014 when the law allowed. They split their time between the UK and Denmark, enjoying a quiet life away from the spotlight. Sandi often credits Debbie for “keeping her grounded in a world of chaos.”
